昨天把《为爱结婚》的两集看完了，越发觉得李亚鹏是个挺不错的男人，依稀记得他在里面的一句line:真正的爱情不怕生死相隔，而是生活。

 

生活的无情，会慢慢离析两颗相爱的心。爱情像是一种Luxury,看似可有可无，without love，生活一样继续，只是颜色只有黑白，with love,生活也许是colorful,但同时也意味为为保护这份爱，要付出更多的爱。爱情像是jewelery,每个女孩子都喜欢，每个女孩子都像要最漂亮的一个，但是没人会知道you have to pay for it to gain the most glittering one.

 

Love is just like the crystal, with lucent and glittering looking but vulnerable heart.

Love is all about taking and giving, giving warmth and care to your spouse,taking strength from your partner.

Love is hard to describe by words, is not just the mysterious chemistry, but the broad shoulders to burden more responsibility, but, faced up to love, I'm a coward, I always get panic, dodge the responsibility and relunctant to change my style. I'm no philosopher, I'm no critical thinker, probably I'm quite emotional and sensitive, who knows, I'm just like that...

喜欢这样的名字，逝去的美好的事物，更容易牵动我们的神经...

就像逝去的日子，我们觉得怀念...

逝去的青春，我们觉得遗憾...

那些逝去的，会在每个人心底的某个角落独自静静的绽放，像是带着幽香的百合，又或是清逸的兰花，开的那样的美，又是那样的keep low profile...

我们身边的一切终将逝去，那时的你我又会在什么地方，是在彼此的心间，还是想那些逝去的花，停留在那绽放的季节.....

 

一直在blog上宣泄自己的小情绪,postive or negative.

也会去好友的space上leave my comment from time to time,有时候他们的mood也会influence me,尤其是那些充满幸福温暖的感受...

 

爱情是什么？幸福又是什么？每个人都有不同的definition, 于我爱情就是那即便远隔千山也蕴含于彼此心间的那份牵挂，幸福就是两个人彼此相携...

 

好友又有了新的GG,字里行间透露着热恋的幸福，每段感情的开始都是美好的，结果却不得而知。即便如此，爱情还是需要有种飞蛾扑火的精神，因为不敢去尝试就永远不会知道爱情的美好，即便是最后遍体鳞伤，痛彻心肺，至少可以刻骨，可以铭心.....

 

Thank you all for your concern and warm-hearted words.

 

Your kind wording sees me through a tough time, and reminds me of your stance on my side.

 

I just wanna express my gratitude, as everything by far is going on the right track, and my life has returned to normal.

 

I'm no more the easy target, and will not waive the right to defend myself.

 

You, my divine buddies, always be there with your tender loving hearts, giving your helping hands to raise me up. I really appreciate it.

 

It's not an acceptance speech, with the phrase " thank you, thank you,thank you", it's from the bottom of my heart....

寂寞是一种自由,寂寞也是一种情绪,寂寞是你我生活的一部分...

 

生活中有太多变故,让人措手不及,我宁愿相信那是上天的安排,是在考验我的适应能力. However, 太多的不确定也是一种必然.

 

"拥抱着怎么还寂寞,

面对你爱我的动作
到不了我的心中
拥抱我
你难道不寂寞
我们之间除了熟悉
还缺了些什么
当阳光都暗了"

 

人与人之间的relationship就是这样的complex, 面对面的距离,心与心的相隔, 缘分来的时候悄然无声,走的时候也不留下任何痕迹....